Now I'm looking. Love is out there, and I am going to imagine it into my life. Thought creates matter, not the other way around.
I'm feeling what it would be like to be in the company of a man who enjoys being with me, often. Someone who likes to talk, and listen, hear. Someone who gives an opinion on things, whether or not it's what I want to hear. ESPECIALLY if it's not what I want to hear. This is how I try new ideas on, and grow. This man will love hiking, driving, camping, seeing the country......and of course, kayaking. Travel outside the country would be good, but this is expensive, and my love does not need to have alot of money.
He does need to have a compassionate heart, excellent sense of humor and wit, and a willingness to try on criticism, wherever it comes from. Also confident, with enough self knowledge to know when it doesn't fit....and when it does.
My eyes are open, and I am in no big hurry. I like my independence, and plan to keep it.
I can sure feel his presence.....
I'm feeling what it would be like to be in the company of a man who enjoys being with me, often. Someone who likes to talk, and listen, hear. Someone who gives an opinion on things, whether or not it's what I want to hear. ESPECIALLY if it's not what I want to hear. This is how I try new ideas on, and grow. This man will love hiking, driving, camping, seeing the country......and of course, kayaking. Travel outside the country would be good, but this is expensive, and my love does not need to have alot of money.
He does need to have a compassionate heart, excellent sense of humor and wit, and a willingness to try on criticism, wherever it comes from. Also confident, with enough self knowledge to know when it doesn't fit....and when it does.
My eyes are open, and I am in no big hurry. I like my independence, and plan to keep it.
I can sure feel his presence.....
"I like my independence, and I plan to keep it."
ReplyDeleteMy mom said that several times in her final years as a widow. A gentleman friend asked her to marry him a few times; each time she declined for the very reason you stated above.
Now that I think about it, Sarah, if something were to happen to Steve, I believe I would be entirely comfortable remaining comfortably, happily, empowered and independent.
I say good for you and more power to you!
Peace,
Marge
Marge, I haven't been able to get into your blog for ages--why not, do you know? It says something obout it being blocked. I miss you, miss our conversations. My email is szorrolt@hotmail.com.
DeleteI am smiling as I read your entry, I can feel the peace and joy that has come into your life. Cherish it...
ReplyDeleteI hope to someday be there also...I have a long journey ahead.
Much love,
Sabine
You'll get there, sweet one. Just keep showing up for yourself. The portals will open.
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